In high school, my dear friend Ursula was frantically trying to hook me up with her friend, Jared. We went out a couple of times and had a blast, but there just wasn't that... spark, or whatever. Instead, we remained friends and had fun. Ursula used to always rib me about how I could let him get away -- he really is the sweetest guy -- and how I was wasting my time chasing these other losers. She was right, of course.
But now, 10 years later, she's gone and married Jared herself. Congrats to the newlyweds -- I love you both.